Family support at Blythe House Hospicecare and Helen’s Trust

There are many ways we can support someone who has been diagnosed with a life-limiting illness, including with clinical care, physical therapies and one-to-one or group support. But did you know that we also provide wraparound care and support to a patient’s whole family and loved ones too?

If your loved one has recently been diagnosed with a life-limiting illness, you understandably might be feeling overwhelmed, scared or confused. We are here for you.

Sometimes, the person who has been diagnosed with an illness may not wish to access any additional services on top of their medical care and treatment appointments, but, as a family member or loved one, you can still seek a range of advice, support and therapies that you may find incredibly useful.

‘Brian said, “we’re alright, we don’t need any support,” but I wasn’t; I could feel that I was draining trying to care for Brian on my own. All through Brian’s illness he didn’t want any extra care and support. I of course respected his wishes as much as I could but my only regret is that I wish we’d had support from the hospice earlier. Everyone we met was fabulous; so kind, supportive and caring. Thank you doesn’t come close; I have no words for how grateful I am.’

Read Edana’s story.

We recognise the impact that a life-limiting illness diagnosis has on a whole family; and we are here to support family members and loved ones with a variety of services, including:

One-to-one carer support with our specialist nurses
Carers support group
Carers support programme – a safe place for people to share experiences and gain support from likeminded individuals in a similar situation. Topics can include:
- Planning for the future
- Impact on relationships
- Self-care – recognising the importance of looking after yourself whilst caring for a loved one
- Dealing with uncertainty
- “I am more than a carer”
- Moving and handling
After referral and a consultation with our specialist nurses, they may also suggest that a course of complementary therapy might be helpful to you to manage the impact of the life-limiting illness. Find out more.
Adults and children’s counselling
Signposting to other local community support such as Derbyshire Carers, and benefits advice

Christine’s story

‘I received support from George Downs, a welfare benefits officer who provided financial support and advice, which was just so beneficial to me. When you’re ill, your brain doesn’t work properly, so going through realms of paperwork with George’s support so was helpful.’ Read Christine’s story.

To refer yourself or a relative for family support at the hospice, please:

Call:

01298 875 080

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