Throughout June, Cooper Sons Hartley & Williams, Buxton will be providing a Will writing service in return for their fee being donated to Blythe House Hospicecare.

Ann’s grandson, Oliver, was just five-years-old when he was diagnosed with a rare form of leukaemia. Following 10 months of intensive chemotherapy, a bone marrow transplant, treatment for a collapsed lung and total body radiotherapy, Oliver sadly died leaving behind his two-year-old little brother, Finley.

Ann says: ‘Finley struggled, especially in groups of children, and that’s where Blythe House Hospice came in. When Fin started school, he had counselling through Blythe House; it was absolutely amazing. He has very fond memories of Blythe, because it helped him.’

Finley and Oliver

Ann continues: ‘I was then diagnosed with a rare form of lymphoma, its incurable, but it’s treatable. I didn’t feel the sheer utter terror I felt when Oliver was diagnosed, with me it was just let’s get on, let’s deal with this. If a little five-year-old boy can go through it, you bet his 62 year old grandma can!

Debbie, a very good friend of Ann’s, inspired her to get support from the Living Well Service at Blythe House: ‘She encouraged me for a good few weeks, and said “Ann you need to go to Blythe!” I wasn’t depressed… yeah, I might be frightened sometimes but I don’t suffer with low spirit, but it’s the best thing she could have done for me, I will always thank her for it. Straight away, calmness came into my life, and it does what it says on the tin, it’s a living well service, you couldn’t have a better phrase. At Blythe I have learnt coping strategies, how to deal with the lows and then how to raise up with the highs.’

The main things Ann gets out of coming to Blythe House are friendship, a lot of support and the ability to talk honestly in the group: ‘You can see everyone at Blythe working as individuals and also as a team. Everybody is so lovely, and I am hooked on reiki, it’s the best medicine. Carol, the practitioner is very special. She definitely has healing hands. Frieda, my key worker, has gone over and above for me since I started coming to Blythe House.

Ann says:

Having an up-to-date will is the only way you can protect your family and loved ones. By making a donation to Blythe House in lieu of legal fees you will have the rewarding knowledge that you are supporting and helping to protect, for the future, such an important and invaluable local charity. You will make a real difference to individuals and families like mine who can benefit from the wonderful compassionate care offered by the amazing team at Blythe House.

To book an appointment to make your Will, call Cooper Sons Hartley & Williams on 01298 77511 quoting Blythe House Hospicecare.

See the Wills Month poster for all the details – click here.