Throughout June, Cooper Sons Hartley & Williams, Buxton will be providing a Will writing service in return for their fee being donated to Blythe House Hospicecare.

Ann’s grandson, Oliver, was just five-years-old when he was diagnosed with a rare form of leukaemia. Following 10 months of intensive chemotherapy, a bone marrow transplant, treatment for a collapsed lung and total body radiotherapy, Oliver sadly died leaving behind his two-year-old little brother, Finley.

Ann says: ‘Finley struggled, especially in groups of children, and that’s where Blythe House Hospice came in. When Fin started school, he had counselling through Blythe House; it was absolutely amazing. He has very fond memories of Blythe, because it helped him.’

Finley and Oliver

Ann continues: ‘I was then diagnosed with a rare form of lymphoma, its incurable, but it’s treatable. I didn’t feel the sheer utter terror I felt when Oliver was diagnosed, with me it was just let’s get on, let’s deal with this. If a little five-year-old boy can go through it, you bet his 62 year old grandma can!

Debbie, a very good friend of Ann’s, inspired her to get support from the Living Well Service at Blythe House: ‘She encouraged me for a good few weeks, and said “Ann you need to go to Blythe!” I wasn’t depressed… yeah, I might be frightened sometimes but I don’t suffer with low spirit, but it’s the best thing she could have done for me, I will always thank her for it. Straight away, calmness came into my life, and it does what it says on the tin, it’s a living well service, you couldn’t have a better phrase. At Blythe I have learnt coping strategies, how to deal with the lows and then how to raise up with the highs.’

The main things Ann gets out of coming to Blythe House are friendship, a lot of support and the ability to talk honestly in the group: ‘You can see everyone at Blythe working as individuals and also as a team. Everybody is so lovely, and I am hooked on reiki, it’s the best medicine. Carol, the practitioner is very special. She definitely has healing hands. Frieda, my key worker, has gone over and above for me since I started coming to Blythe House.

Ann says:

Having an up-to-date will is the only way you can protect your family and loved ones. By making a donation to Blythe House in lieu of legal fees you will have the rewarding knowledge that you are supporting and helping to protect, for the future, such an important and invaluable local charity. You will make a real difference to individuals and families like mine who can benefit from the wonderful compassionate care offered by the amazing team at Blythe House.

To book an appointment to make your Will, call Cooper Sons Hartley & Williams on 01298 77511 quoting Blythe House Hospicecare.

See the Wills Month poster for all the details – click here.

‘The Glow Twilight Walk is an exciting event that all members of the family can take part in. It is vital that local people support this event.

I know from my personal experience with having breast cancer, the fantastic help and support that goes on at Blythe House. I passionately feel it deserves all the support we can give it, so please sign up to take part and help raise funds for this fantastic hospice.’

Ann was looking forward to a fresh start with her husband, Ian when she moved to the High Peak from Stockport in February 2018. As they struggled to relocate furniture and belongings during the relentless Beast from the East, Ann became unwell with a sore throat, aches and pains, and she discovered she had shingles.

Ann with husband, Ian

After some time off work whilst moving house and being unwell, Ann went for a regular mammogram check-up at Macclesfield District General Hospital and within two weeks she found out that she had a 4.5cm tumour in her breast.

Ann had a mastectomy in May 2018, and though the operation went well, she then had to undergo nine weeks of chemotherapy to kill off small traces of the cancerous cells still in her lymph glands.

The Chapel-en-le-Frith resident explains: ‘My best friend Margaret moved to the new housing estate in Chapel and after a few visits to her and some discussions with my husband, we decided to make the move too so that we could be closer to the countryside. We were really looking forward to a fresh start and to enjoying our new life in the High Peak. My breast cancer diagnosis a few weeks after the move changed our lives.

‘After undergoing my operation and chemo, my boss and friend, Anne-Marie told me about Blythe House and encouraged me to find out more. I had the total wrong impression of the hospice and thought it was a little hospital where people came to die. I was incredibly nervous; I am not a confident person anyway, but especially being in a new area with only a few friends.

‘One day I was at home on my own as my husband was out at work and I decided to have a walk round to Blythe House. I was milling around outside too frightened to go in and one of the nurses, Liza, was walking in behind me and asked if she could help. She brought me through the doors and from that day on, it is the best thing I ever did. My husband could not believe I had the courage to walk round here in the first place!

‘Everyone here is such a big part of my life; if I hadn’t have come to Blythe House, I would have been in a different place. We all have different experiences and diagnoses but we can all chat and relate to each other. Coming here has changed me as a person; at one stage I wouldn’t have even spoken to share my story.’

Ann is due to go back to work in pharmacy production at Stepping Hill Hospital in April, as she continues her recovery and her prognosis looks good.

She says: ‘Blythe House has been a big part of my life and I’m going to miss so many people. I’ll continue to come to the monthly coffee mornings and attend the Breast Friends support group, to be able to support the hospice and catch up with friends. I also hope to raise money alongside Margaret and my two sons, Mark and Adam.’

Find out more about the Glow Twilight Walk

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Blythe House Hospicecare was founded in 1989 after local resident, Stan Blythe left a £1,000 legacy to Reverend Betty Packham.

We would love for you to help us celebrate 30 years of hospice care in the High Peak by hosting us a party!

It doesn’t matter what you do, how you do it or where you do it, it’s who you do it with that matters and the fact you are supporting your local hospice, Blythe House Hospicecare.

Please download our fundraising pack request form, fill it in and return it to Blythe House. We will then be able to send you your 30th birthday fundraising pack!

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Read more about the history of Blythe House